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What to Say to A Friend After the Death of a Pet

Beinhauer Funeral • Jun 24, 2019
Losing a pet is a challenging and painful experience. If you know someone who has recently lost a pet, you may be trying to figure out the best way to be supportive, especially if you never experienced this or never owned a pet before.

Because pet deaths can be traumatic for your friend, you may be struggling to find a way to help them through their grief.

Let Them Know You’ll Be There

Someone who has lost a pet needs support. The best thing you can do for them is to tell them that you are here to support them, listen to them, and help them through this difficult time. A friend who has lost a pet may not reach out to you, so it is essential to remain available and supportive. You can start by expressing your condolences with phrases such “I’m sorry for your loss.” It’s crucial to avoid jokes or changing the subject to avoid it because it could backfire and add more stress to the situation.

Offer to Help with Funeral Arrangements

For many people, losing a pet is like losing a family member. With that in mind, offer to help your friend with difficult tasks such as planning a pet funeral as well as the cremation or burial. This can help take some of the weight of them and allow them to grieve without the worry of funeral planning.

Send a Memorial Gift or Card

A card or gift sent in memory of your friend or family members pet with be appreciated by them during their grieving process. Sending a card with a short message is enough to express your condolences. Consider messages such as, “Wishing you peace and comfort during this time” or “I am sorry for your loss. [pet’s name] will be dearly missed.”

If you prefer to send a gift, consider sending flowers or a plant, a memorial gift such as personalized jewelry. You may also consider donating to a local shelter or other pet assistance organizations in the name of their pet.

Pet Cremation Services in Pittsburgh

At Peaceful Pastures Pet Cemetery, we offer a variety of compassionate and professionals funeral services for your pet. We can also assist you with advanced planning for pet cremation services to help you make important decisions ahead of time. Connect with our caring staff today to learn more.
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